Okay, I know I said I wasn't going to do it, but I did. I looked at the mchat. That's the bad news. The good news is that he passes!!!!!!!!!! Once I stepped back and stopped obsessing for a few days, then looked again today a little more objectively, the only ones he doesn't do are the pointing ones. And that alone is not enough to put up the red flags. OMG!!!! I'm so relieved. He's just a laid back little boy who will do things when he is ready. Look how hard his is working on saying bye-bye. He won't really use it until he's got it right. Can't fault him for that!!! I can't even begin to express the weight that has been lifted off my chest. He's most likely not at risk. I can't/won't say he's completely not until I hear it from a professional, but that's my character flaw, not his. WooHoo!!!