My husband is wrong. He thinks that I'm constantly mad at him because he can't live up to my expectations. He's wrong. I'm often mad at him because he does live up to my expectations. I expect him to be on his computer, or watching tv instead of playing with the kids. I expect him to act like my asking for help is a huge hassle and resent me for it. I expect him to want everyone to be part of his activities and him to only begrudgingly ever try to be part of theirs. I wonder if this is something I can deal with or a deal breaker?